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Welcome to my website, I’m glad you’re here.  My name is Janice Willingham and I have been doing internet marketing for about five years.  Although, you’ve landed on my relationship blog, I am not one of those relationship gurus. My interest in this area is purely personal.

I have been in relationships where they unequal in finances, emotion, physical intimacy and personal interest. When observing or interacting with other couples I often wonder and ask them how do they maintain their relationship? What makes their relationship so successful? What gives them staying power? And not only do I explore spousal relationships, but also sibling, employee-boss interactions and connections, which are just as equally important.

Our world has evolved into something where it is no longer “cool” to work to get along or figure out ways that will enhance our relationship in order to get things done or even to be able to live with one another.  We have evolved into where civility is dead. We have become hostile, reactive, harsh and insensitive with the folks that matter the most to us.  The power struggles and ego are usually the main culprits that hold us back from giving and receiving the most treasured of emotions . . . love.

What’s interesting is how we have these blow ups with our significant others which includes siblings, friends, supervisors, etc. and afterwards once we calm down, those words slowly eek out . . . I want my ex back (inclusive of all people in your life).  You know your ex. Those people you have brandished from your life forever during a heated exchange or even a long irritable time together.

I remember a friend of mine that told me that she was in therapy (and had been for a number of years) to undue the toxicity of her mother-daughter relationship and learn how to deal with her mother.  I understood that because I also have one of those mothers. Instead of alienating my mother and not being able to spend time with my family, I came up with coping strategies that were comfortable for me and wouldn’t offend those that I loved the most.

My friend upon learning this was eager to learn my strategies.  I shared them with her and we both set out to come up with some for her that she would be okay implementing without feeling disrespectful to her mother and that also coincided with her personality. The other issue we worked on was being able to let go.

We like to hold onto the emotions associated with someone not doing or saying what we want. We hold onto the emotions of their actions or inaction for that matter until it becomes a part of us. My friend and I discussed letting go of the emotions surrounding the actions and verbiage of your mother. You have options. Instead of going toe to toe, respectfully leave and go do something else. Leave the crap that was occurring at the door once you clear the threshold. She tried this also and told me about how she regained her power, she regained herself.

All relationships can’t be healed, but the vast majority of them can be with forgiveness, civility, empathy and utilizing coping strategies to be with those you love the most. In the end, the fights, the emotions and alienation mean nothing. The stuff that was so engaging and conflictual during your life time, doesn’t matter when you’re dying because most people want to be surrounded by those folks that matter the most, their family.

The products on this site are designed to help. They were placed here because the content may assist you in not giving up on your relationships, but find ways to hang in there before you throw in the towel and then began the journey of seeking ways to get your ex back.

I consider our relationship to be very important. I acknowledge that in these economic times that you have choices where you spend your money. I have worn several hats as a product buyer and seller and a newbie getting started in internet marketing. Therefore, I understand your expectations of me as the owner of this website.

Take a look at the products I’m offering and if you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me.  My communication with you will be open and honest.  I am an ethical seller who shoots from the hip. I want to earn your trust and most importantly, your business.

Again, thanks for stopping by.

Janice