‘Can we save our marriage’ is a question on the lips of many people who seem to be facing the breakdown of their relationship with their spouse. Divorce rates are rocketing and many people accept divorce as the natural end to a marriage, instead of expecting to be together until death parts them. In this climate, divorce is often the easy way out.

However, just the fact that you are asking ‘can this marriage be saved’ is already a very positive sign. Sadly, more and more people these days opt for divorce without even considering whether their marriage might be sustainable.

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Because there are so many self help techniques available that could bring back the intimacy in your relationship, you can save your relationship. It just takes effort and the desire to do so.   Many people believe that relationship intimacy levels begin to fade over time and becomes difficult to get it back to the earlier way it was in the beginning of the relationship. They mistakenly believe this absence of intimacy means the love is gone, but the truth is that all relationships develop into a pattern of habits and rituals that can often make people feel more like roommates than lovers. Instead of letting your relationship slip away and  giving up, try using some relationship self help techniques to bring back intimacy to where you were when you first met.

• Engage in Small Talk

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